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		<title>Forgiving Fathers</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Forgiving Fathers
from Father&#8217;s Day 2008
adapted from Poet Dick Lourie
There are few examples of good fathers.  In nature, in scripture, in society, or in media a good father is hard to find.  The poet Dick Lourie writes, &#8220;If we forgive our fathers what is left?&#8221;  Withholding forgiveness from our fathers can serve as [...]]]></description>
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<div style="text-align: center;">from Father&#8217;s Day 2008</div>
<div style="text-align: center;">adapted from Poet Dick Lourie</div>
<div>There are few examples of good fathers.  In nature, in scripture, in society, or in media a good father is hard to find.  The poet Dick Lourie writes, &#8220;If we forgive our fathers what is left?&#8221;  Withholding forgiveness from our fathers can serve as protection against their failures.  If we give that up, what do we have left?  Let us place these questions in the hands of God and ask for mercy:</div>
<div>Maybe for leaving us too often</div>
<div>or forever when we were little</div>
<div><strong>Lord, have mercy</strong></div>
<div>Maybe for scaring us with unexpected rage</div>
<div>or making us nervous because there seemed never to be any rage there at all</div>
<div><strong>Lord, have mercy</strong></div>
<div>Maybe for marrying or not marrying our mothers</div>
<div>for divorcing or not divorcing our mothers</div>
<div><strong>Lord, have mercy</strong></div>
<p>Maybe for their excesses of warmth or coldness, for pushing or leaning, for shutting doors, for speaking only through layers of cloth or never speaking or never being silent</p>
<p><strong>Lord, have mercy</strong></p>
<div id="sm266">In our age or in theirs or in their deaths,</div>
<div><strong>Lord, may we forgive our fathers</strong></div>
<div>saying it to them or not saying it,</div>
<div><strong>Lord, may we forgive our fathers</strong></div>
<p>God, we trust in your ability to redeem anything, anyone, any father and any father-wound.</p>
<p>Thank you for the fathers that you have given us and for the gifts of your goodness you given us through them.</p>
<p>For the miracle that fathers bring their paycheck home or come home at all<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>Lord, we are so grateful</strong></p>
<p>For the miracle of fathers who are present with their children,</p>
<p>loving them with strength, but not too much strength</p>
<p>and tenderness, but not too much tenderness</p>
<p><strong>Lord, we are so grateful</strong></p>
<p>For all those who have given us a taste of good fathering</p>
<p>birth fathers, adopted fathers, borrowed father and fathers for a season</p>
<p><strong>Lord, we are so grateful</strong></p>
<p>In our age or in theirs or in their deaths</p>
<p><strong>Lord, may we thank our fathers</strong></p>
<p>Saying it to them or not saying it</p>
<p><strong>Lord, may we thank our fathers</strong></p>
<p>Amen</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Gospel Reading &#8211; &#8220;The Extravagant Father&#8221; &#8211; Luke 15</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Eucharistic Narrative based on Luke 15<br />
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<p>Seeing you a long ways off, God is filled with compassion.  God runs to meet you here, catches you in an embrace and kisses you, and kisses you.  We try to confess:</p>
<p><strong>Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you.  I am no longer worth being called your child.</strong></p>
<p>But it&#8217;s no use.  God has already forgiven you before you could even speak the words and a homecoming celebration has begun.  This is the feast that shows us the fathering heart of God.</p>
<p>Here, Jesus breaks bread and says, &#8220;Remember, this is the gift of myself.  I&#8217;m giving myself for you.&#8221;</p>
<p>And here Jesus takes wine and says, &#8220;Remember, this is the gift of relationship.  You are forgiven.  My connection to my Father is now your connection to my Father.&#8221;</p>
<p>And here you will receive the acceptance, the attention, the guidance, and the freedom that you desired from your earthly father.  Come and find it met here in the embrace of God given to you in bread and wine.  Welcome home.</p>
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