A point that's not included in that service is this – our scriptures do not have this debate in mind when it's writing to it's audiences – it's unfair to try and make it say that is does… even when uses male pro-nouns. The scriptures are not saying, “Hey, We are intentionally using male pro-nouns in order to weigh in on your gender debate.” Even the feminine example that Dubayd sites, which I really want help symbolize a point for the femininity of God, I'm not sure that's what it's intended to say – rather it says, “God wont forget you!” and the prophet asks, “How can I ignite the imagination of my hearers around this promise? I know, God is like a mother… even more than a mother.”

But we can certainly have a modern conversation about gender and language and power… but, for christians, you know exactly what God thinks about power because Jesus loves/serves his enemies and dies for them. That's a good word to men who want to put women down and raise themselves up… and that's a good word to women who want to put men down and raise themselves up. Christ is the great equalizer of persons who calls us to raise up the Other.

14But Zion said,(A) “The LORD has forsaken me;
my Lord has forgotten me.”

15(B) “Can a woman forget her nursing child,
that she should have no compassion on the son of her womb?
Even these may forget,
yet I will not forget you.

but Jesus called God Father…and also I have some sensitivity to it I will do the same. We should not judge our Father in heaven by the behavior of our own fathers, we should judge our own fathers by the love and compassion of our heavenly Father.