Forgiving Fathers
Maybe for their excesses of warmth or coldness, for pushing or leaning, for shutting doors, for speaking only through layers of cloth or never speaking or never being silent
Lord, have mercy
God, we trust in your ability to redeem anything, anyone, any father and any father-wound.
Thank you for the fathers that you have given us and for the gifts of your goodness you given us through them.
For the miracle that fathers bring their paycheck home or come home at all
Lord, we are so grateful
For the miracle of fathers who are present with their children,
loving them with strength, but not too much strength
and tenderness, but not too much tenderness
Lord, we are so grateful
For all those who have given us a taste of good fathering
birth fathers, adopted fathers, borrowed father and fathers for a season
Lord, we are so grateful
In our age or in theirs or in their deaths
Lord, may we thank our fathers
Saying it to them or not saying it
Lord, may we thank our fathers
Amen
Gospel Reading – “The Extravagant Father” – Luke 15
Eucharistic Narrative based on Luke 15
Seeing you a long ways off, God is filled with compassion. God runs to meet you here, catches you in an embrace and kisses you, and kisses you. We try to confess:
Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worth being called your child.
But it’s no use. God has already forgiven you before you could even speak the words and a homecoming celebration has begun. This is the feast that shows us the fathering heart of God.
Here, Jesus breaks bread and says, “Remember, this is the gift of myself. I’m giving myself for you.”
And here Jesus takes wine and says, “Remember, this is the gift of relationship. You are forgiven. My connection to my Father is now your connection to my Father.”
And here you will receive the acceptance, the attention, the guidance, and the freedom that you desired from your earthly father. Come and find it met here in the embrace of God given to you in bread and wine. Welcome home.
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